Forgiving Death

Forgiveness is part of the process. I went through a time I was angry that my husband died....it felt like he left everything in my lap, what was left of our life had changed. I had three boys without a father, my youngest being 11. I just felt like everything had been dumped on me. When I faced up to these feelings and got over feeling guilty about them, I realized this was just part of the grief process I had to get through. I forgave myself, understood it was okay, and I didn't dwell on it but moved ahead with my life.